Why doesn’t my dog let me touch it?

If your dog won’t let you touch it, you might be wondering why and what you can do about it. This post will show you a number of possible causes and what you can do to get it to let you touch it.

So, why won’t my dog let me touch it? Common reasons why your dog won’t let you touch it are injury, intimidation, bad previous experiences, or learning that it gets rewarded when it doesn’t let you touch it.

There are actually multiple possible reasons why your dog might not be letting you touch it and it might be due to a combination of them. However, there are some things you can consider when figuring out the main reason and there are a number of things you can do about it.

Reasons why your dog won’t let you touch it

Below are a number of possible causes and what would make each of them more likely to be the main cause.

Injury

The cause could be that it has injured itself and it does not want you to touch it because it hurts. This would be more likely if your dog has started doing it suddenly and it has been showing other signs of being injured such as not moving as much as normal or walking in an unusual way. In this case, it would help to take it to a vet. 

Intimidation

The cause could also be that it becomes intimidated. It might be intimidated because of the way you approach it, how loud you are or how aggressively you touch it. Instead, it would help to be gentle with it and to be calm around it. 

Previous experiences

The cause could also be that someone mistreated it in the past, causing it to not like allowing people to touch it anymore. This would be more likely if you adopted it as an adult. 

It might also be the case that you hurt it when you touched it before and now it does not want you to touch it again. This would be more likely if it stopped letting you touch it suddenly after you hurt it.

Encouraging the behavior

The cause could also be that it has learned that it gets rewards when it does not let you touch it. If you tend to give it things such as toys, treats or extra attention, when it does not let you touch it, it will likely do it more in order to get more rewards. 

Nature

Some dogs just do not like being touched and it could be the case that yours does not like it naturally. This would be more likely if it has always not wanted you to touch it.

Things to consider

Below are some things to consider when figuring out the main reason why your dog has been doing it.

What else happened when your dog stopped letting you touch it

If your dog did let you touch it before, it would help to consider what else happened when it stopped letting you touch it. If it stopped letting you touch it suddenly, it could be because it injured it or because you hurt it when you touched it. 

What is different when your dog does let you touch it

If your dog does let you touch it sometimes, it would help to consider what is different when it does let you touch it. For example, if it does not let you do it when you approach it in a certain way, it might be because it is intimidated. 

How old it is

It would also help to consider how old your dog is. If it is a puppy, it would be more likely that it does it due to being intimidated or not understanding what you are doing. Whereas, if it is an adult, it would be more likely to be due to past experiences. 

What to do about your dog not letting you touch it

Below are some things you can do when getting it to let you touch it.

Get help

If your dog has started doing it suddenly and it has been showing signs of being injured, the best option would be to take it to a vet. By taking it to a vet, you should be able to rule out medical causes and to get expert advice tailored towards your particular dog.

Avoid encouraging the behavior

As mentioned above, it could be the case that it has learned that the behavior gets rewarded. Instead, it would help to reward it when it does let you touch it and to avoid rewarding it when it does not. 

Positive reinforcement training

Positive reinforcement training involves encouraging the behavior you want to see by rewarding your dog when it shows signs of displaying it. To use it to get your dog to let you touch it, you would make it seem like you want to touch it and reward it if it does not flinch, then gradually build up to actually touching it. 

Be careful

Often, dogs will behave more aggressively when they are intimidated. If it does not like being touched, it would also be important to be careful when trying to touch it.