Why does my Golden Retriever stand over me?

If your Golden Retriever keeps standing over you, this post will show you a number of possible reasons why and what you can do about it.

So, why does my Golden Retriever stand over me? Possible reasons are that it is being dominant, it’s being protective, it is looking for attention or you might have inadvertently rewarded the behavior.

There are many reasons why your Golden Retriever might be doing it and it could be due to a combination of them. However, there are some things you can consider when trying to figure out the exact reason and there are a number of things you can do about it.

Why your Golden Retriever stands over you

Below are a number of reasons why your Golden Retriever might stand over you and what would make them more likely to be a main reason.

It’s being dominant

Sometimes, dogs will stand over other dogs when they are being dominant in the wild and being dominant could be the reason why your Golden Retriever stands over you. This would be more likely if it does other things such as not listen to you, become aggressive, tries to sit where you sit or to position itself to be higher than you.

If it does seem to be being dominant it would be important to give it lots of training so that it learns how it should behave.

It’s being protective

The reason why it does it might be because it is being protective. This would be more likely if it does it more in situations such as when there is another person nearby. It would also be more likely if it becomes overly protective when you are around other animals and people.

You have inadvertently trained it to do it

The cause might be that you have trained it to do it by giving it things it wants when it does it. If you tend to give it things such as toys or treats in order to get it to stop, it will likely do it more in order to get more rewards.

Instead, it would help to give it rewards when it is well behaved and to try to redirect its focus onto something else when it seems like it is about to try to stand over you.

It is looking for attention

It might also be the case that it does it in order to get extra attention from you. This would be more likely if you tend to give it more attention when it stands over you and if it does it more when you have not been giving it much attention.

Instead, it would help to give it attention throughout the day by playing with it, training it or exercising it and to avoid rewarding it with attention when it stands over you.

It makes it feel safer

The reason why it does it could also be that it makes your Golden Retriever feel more secure. This would be more likely if it does it when it might be feeling insecure such as when there are fireworks outside or construction works.

Things to consider

Below are some things to consider about your Golden Retriever standing over you.

When it first started doing it

It would help to consider if anything else happened when your Golden Retriever first started doing it since it could be the case that there was an event that caused it to start.

If it did start doing it suddenly it could be that it learned that it results in it getting rewards, that something happened that might have made it feel insecure or that it started looking for extra attention when its daily routine changed.

If it has been doing it since a young age then it could be that you rewarded it for doing it when it was young or that it has been doing it due to being dominating especially if you didn’t give it much training as a puppy.

If it stands over other people or dogs

It would also help to consider whether or not it does it to other people or animals or it just does it to you.

If it also stands over other people or animals then it would make it more likely to be because it is being dominating.

Whereas, if it just does it to you then it would be more likely that it is looking for attention from you or that it does it for the rewards.

When it seems to do it more

If there are certain times that it tends to do it more, it would also help to consider what is different about the timing.

For example, if it only does it when there are noises outside like sirens then it might be because it is feeling insecure due to the noises.

What to do about your Golden Retriever standing over you

Below are a number of things you can do about your Golden Retriever standing over you.

Give it lots of training

The first thing to do would be to give it lots of training so that it learns to listen to your command and so that it is easier to control.

If you have not given your Golden Retriever much training it would be important to do so starting with the basics and building up from there. The training method I would recommend would be positive reinforcement training.

Avoid allowing it to do so by noticing when it is about to stand over you

It would also help to try to redirect your Golden Retriever’s focus as soon as it seems like it is likely to stand over you. To do this you would train it to lay down in a certain spot when you say a certain command using positive reinforcement training and then you would tell it to lay down there whenever it starts trying to stand over you.

Get help from a dog behaviorist

If you can’t figure out why your Golden Retriever stands over you, you can’t get it to stop or it does it aggressively then the best option would be to get help from a dog behaviorist. By doing so you will be able to see how to train it in a secure manner.